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Miracle of love and language
manipulation - A vision
on MOL-language-use - Intro
Language manipulation is, according to my
perception, one of the most important tools for destructive cults, to create the “invisible
barrier of miscommunication” between the cult-world
and the world outside the cult. In my opinion,
MOL-leaders use that kind of language manipulation. First
a brief personal history
- brief…in small characters, because this site is not
a site about me.. it is meant
to be a site, written by me and written with all my respect, for my friend
mountain spirit an all
other victims of MOL, in the name of freedom of mind and freedom of speech – The first
time I encountered such an “invisible barrier of miscommunication”, was at a
time I was not
yet professionally schooled or professionally involved with cult-matters. One of my
dearest friends, called “moon”, started to act and react differently than
before on all
kinds of subjects in life: beliefs, our friendship, my personality, human
rights etc. This was
not a constant conduct in the beginning. One day my friend moon would act like a stranger to me, the other day she would seem to be like she was before… before the
twisting started. Gradually,
my friend moon turned more and more into the person that was a stranger to
me. The most
frustrating experiences in this “period of gradual change”, was the fact that
“ a good talk”,
wasn’t possible. Words like
“love” and “friendship” didn’t seem to mean the same for my friend as before the
“twisting-period” started. She started to explain these beautiful positive
meant words into words with
a negative and also illness-label. My personality also became subject of that type
of explanation. To make a long, intensive and sad story very short: Finally
our friendship got an “illness-label” too and had to be ended according to
the cultic structure my friend
moon had got into. I felt
awfully sad. The fact that I wasn’t able to reach my friend with “a simple
good talk”…with words.. made me
feel powerless. Before
this “contact-ending” happened, coerceived persuasion techniques were use on
me in order
to recrute me and my family for the structure my friend seemed to have become
already a
member..and recruiter… of. Reward and punishment were used….and it did
hurt…and it did make me insecure, doubting
my own perception on everything….but I kept my critical thinking mind…. When the
techniques seemed to fail….when my
husband and I asked to many critical questions, didn’t
take no for an answer and that I didn’t bow, even when it did hurt me very
much, the
frustration of contact between me and my friend started. So….I had
a heavy encounter with the “ invisible barrier of miscommunication”. After that
I had a period in which I was completely down…..It took a few years to stand
up again. After
those few years of struggling I started to study the strange phenomena I had
a “meet and greet” with. Finally I
became a professional schooled counsellor, exitcounseler and a specialist on the
process and possible impact of coerceived persuasion techniques. In the
resent two years of my life I have helped a lot of victims of coerceived
persuasion out of
their ban in my role of professional therapist and exitcounseler. Without any
doubt, I’ll keep
on fulfilling that job with all my heart and soul for the rest of my life. The language-manipulation within the MOL, according to my
perception Words of Kalindi: First I’ll just point out the words that are being
used by Kalindi very often. Words of which I am convinced that they manipulate the minds of members and new
recrutes., Why?: -Because of the fact that these words are labelled
with other meaning than the meaning used outside the MOL -because of a very subtle logical consequence of
these new meanings, also for the explanations…etc. For example: illusion stands within MOL for every
human emotion and conduct in the world: happiness, love, friendship, attachment, care… According to Kalindi, you have to face separation
from your friends, loved-ones, spouses, happiness, In order to find……”home”…..(and that word doesn’t
mean to be the place at the fire with your friends or parents..it is
somewhere in the after-life….)you have to go through the pain
of losing the attachment to you friends, family, emotion… everything life is made of…..during your
lifetime….You have to do a lot of “MOL-Intensives” to guide you.. and these “MOL-Intensives” do cost you a lot of
money…..and bring you, according to my perception, even deeper into the
boundaries of the MOL. I’m sure, the change of meaning of the following
words of and by Kalindi are an important part of the “ barrier of MOL-miscommunication”: ·
longing ·
love ·
desire ·
illusion ·
home ·
play/playground ·
parents ·
comfort ·
god ·
separation ·
deep/deeper
cry ·
level of
prayer ·
self
realisation ·
surrender ·
transformation Further explanation next time Ocean spirit/Sjoukje Drenth-Bruintjes Words of
Gourasana: * Page under
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